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When it comes to being a 'lady', you are how you dress.

Always dress appropriately for the situation. Do not wear your little black dress at a party where there you know there will be children. If you were unaware, you should always have a back up to cover you, a shawl of some sort to cover your top; children do not need to see your assets. On that note, when you wear a dress, especially at any party you go to, if you want to wear a short dress, keep it as low as just an inch or two above your knees, anything above that, people are usually thinking you are there from one thing.............. Believe it or not, there are other dresses out there that would compliment your body shape without you needing to be too revealing.

On the day of shopping, wear clean and wrinkle free clothing, nothing too baggy, nothing too tight. If you want to be 'sexy', that should be demonstrated on how well you carry yourself. Most men I associate with love a confident women! I'll go into that with more depth later. 'Business casual' is always a nice look, but you are not restricted to that. Dresses and skirts are nice, follow the same rule as above. You can even wear jeans, though with jeans, try to stay away from the overdone rhinestones, especially when the designers place them on the butt, if guys wanted to look there, they will... or being too holey or tattered. There really is nothing wrong with just plain jeans as long as they fit you well. I'd say it's actually quite complimenting.

Shoes... just make sure they match your outfit! Also, for those who love to wear stilettos, I'm sorry girls, but learn how to walk. You are not supposed to should like a horse! Most women find it sexy and dominating, and if you are one of them and know how to walk, move on to the next paragraph. Now then, if you bought really cheap or poorly designed ones, take them to a shoe repair and have them put some rubber on the heels. This also helps but not slipping as much. Use shorter strides than you would normally and walk heel-toe not flat. Practice is the key ladies! Remember a lady is supposed to be graceful!

When it comes too make up. Remember ladies, make up is used to enhance ones beauty. You do not need thick amounts! Just put enough on to hide the blemishes and highlight your strong points. By putting on too much, you run the risk of looking like a clown...

The hair... not much to say here except, comb it! Do try not to leave with 'bed-head'. If you wish to style, then do so as you see fit. Try not to use too much hair spray or gel for when it dries it will look and feel like a rock.

Well that's it from today... if there are any questions, I will try to answer the best I can.