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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:26 am
So there's been some tension between my roommate and I over a dumb issue concerning the extent to which God exerts control over the world.
She communicated to me that she believes God controls everything down to the weather.
I think that God created natural laws to goven things such as the weather. Otherwise, we wouldn't be able to predict it. But anytime I mention science, she responds with this "science=man's thinking=deception" attitude and won't even listen.
Then, she asked if I believed God caused things like the September 11th attacks to happen, and I said "no", that I believed those attacks were a product of man's choice to sin. Then she asked if I believed God knew it would happen, and I said "yes, but that doesn't mean it was a result of His will". Then she said "how do you know if someone got saved or not as a result?". I told her that I believe that the nature of God is to create good from the destruction caused by man's sin (and the enemy); and that just because He knew it would happen doesn't mean he chose for it to happen. Though, I conceded with her on the point that he -allowed- it to happen by giving man that choice; so in a way, sure... God is in control in that aspect. But that still doesn't explain things like the weather, natural disasters, etc.
I told her that in the Old Testament, there were certain things that God made a point of. Soddom and Ghammora (sp), for instance, was destroyed because of it's sinfulness... but God gave fair warning. Even with the plauges in Egypt, God gave fair warning. With the flood, God gave fair warning. I think that's different from disasters on earth that result from mankind's choices to sin. But when I tried to explain that to her, she thought I was contradicting myself - she couldn't understand how I'm able to say that God controls one aspect of the world, but not others.
And honestly, I don't know how to communicate any better than this.
Also, she asked if I believe God protects people who aren't necessarily Christians or are saved. I told her "I don't know". 'Cause I don't. She seemed a little disturbed by my lack of a certainity. I think God -can-. Maybe that's God's way of reaching out to certain people. Who knows?
Honestly, it doesn't bother me that she thinks differently. She grew up believing that God controls every aspect of the world and that he has everything planned out. Well, I believe God DOES have a plan for every individual, but you have to submit to his will in order to fulfill it. That's what the Bible means when it says to "die to yourself". If you do what you want and ignore God, then you miss out. Still, God knows everything you're going to do before you do it. But that doesn't compromise the fact that we have a choice.
I dunno. What do you guys think? My roommate won't leave the matter alone, and she's clearly not satisfied with my answers. I'm not saying I'm not wrong - I'm just saying that this is what I personally believe. And I'll continue to believe as I do until God shows me I'm wrong. Same with her. So honestly, I don't see the point in pressing the matter any longer. But I'm tired of the tension this is producing.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 8:15 am
Ugh. Well, I have an answer, but you're not going to like it. And she's going to like it even less. Regarding the weather and natural disasters, first of all ... if God set certain rules in effect, then He's still in control. Oh, certainly, there may be times when God steps in and does something that seems contrary to the rules He created (such as Noah's Flood), but most of the time, those natural laws stay in effect ... natural laws created by Him, so they're His laws. You were both saying the same thing. ========== "Science=man's thinking=deception" ... okay, there's a difference between the cult of science (as opposed to the cult of Scientology xp ), and simple logic and observation. Anything we have in this world was created through science. Dogs are bred through science; vegetables are planted through science; dyes for clothes are created through science. There's a big difference between this science and that Omegacollider crap that was built recently. But you ask her if there's anything wrong or unholy with her cheeseburger. The bread was created by man experimenting with grains under certain circumstances, with meat being eaten after being cooked in various forms to see what's easiest, and experimenting with milk. Or, better yet, ask her about Shadrach, Meschach, and Abednego, who told the king, "look, we don't want your fatty foods; we want these diet grains. Put us to the test, us against somebody who eats the fatty stuff, and see for yourself who's better off." Or do either of you honestly think that these computers we're using now were passed down to us from on high? Hmm ... considering half of what's on the 'Net, I'd sooner think they were passed to us from on low, myself ... but no, we can't blame God or Satan for these computers; we can thank God that we have them for conversations like this, and certainly we know that Satan's the ultimate mastermind behind things like "hot2trot.com" or 4chan. Science, in its purest form, is just taking what we have observed, and looking for a practical use for it. It is inherently flawed, and admits it. The cult of science is equally flawed, but won't admit it. They're two different things. ========== 9/11 and the Old Testament ... well, if you want to get technical, Noah's Flood was a result of man's sin. God looked at the world and said, "this sucks! There's only one person on the whole planet who's doing anything right! I'm just going to wipe out the rest, and let this guy's family start things over for me." So, the Flood was a result of man's sin. And, I think you'll agree, 9/11 was the same. Did God cause it? Possible, but unlikely ... and unimportant, 'cause whether He did or not, it still happened; what are we going to do, blame Him? I'm not that crazy. Did God allow it? Whether He caused it or not, He certainly allowed it. Did He do so for a reason? Yeah, probably eight or nine hundred reasons. What's it say in Romans, that God works in all things for the good of those that love Him? No matter what happens, He can find a way to bring something good out of it. He's the ultimate optimist, and He can pull good out of bad. ========== Natural disasters ... well, simple compexity theory tells us there's no way of knowing how much of, oh, Hurricane Katrina was our fault for abusing the environment, and how much was just "hey, stuff happens". Point is, it's possible that a lot of "natural disasters" are a result of man's sin ... or, they might not be. Doesn't matter; we still gotta deal with them. Getting all wrapped up in the "why" is just avoidance. Personally, I figure "natural disasters" are just part of the shape of the universe; they happen. Doesn't matter why they happen, only that they happen. Hypothetically, let's say, just for argument, that you and I live next-door to each other. Then a tornado comes along. You and she can question why it happened; I've accepted that it happened, and I'm going to go patch my roof. At the end of the day, I'll be the one with a patched roof; you two can sit and argue in your now-leaky house. ========== Quote: She grew up believing that God controls every aspect of the world and that he has everything planned out. That's predestination, carried to extremes. And if that's the case, then I -- with no disrespect to your roommate -- can't see how she can be a Christian. No, I'm not saying she's not, but she certainly never chose to be, did she? Does God have everything planned out? Yes, absolutely. Does He influence things on Earth? Definitely. Does He force us to do what He wants? No, or at least not often, but He does lead us into situations where following His plan is the best move. If God forced us to do what He wanted, then literally everything we did would be what He wanted. It'd be impossible to sin ... or, worse, God would be the source of our sin. eek Wait, how's that even hypothetically possible? If God's plan is for this person to sin, and God forces them to do so ... that's God wanting them to sin, and making sure it happens. But, since sin is rebelling against God, then we'd be rebelling ... by obeying? Hang on, I need a Tylenol. @_@ ========== Now for the part you're going to hate. Can your roommate let this all go long enough for you two to host your get-togethers? I mean, it's a good topic for discussions, but it doesn't sound like either of you is going to get anything out of it. You admit you won't change, and it doesn't sound like she'll change either. That's no discussion, that's fighting. And you don't want to be fighting during your get-togethers. Further, if this is causing that much stress ... tell her this is an unwelcome subject. Neither of you is going to change, and all the subject is going to do is make matters worse. If she doesn't listen, either pack your bags or ask her to pack hers.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 11:19 am
dats true "I believe God DOES have a plan for every individual, but you have to submit to his will in order to fulfill it."
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:03 pm
Quote: Regarding the weather and natural disasters, first of all ... if God set certain rules in effect, then He's still in control. Oh, certainly, there may be times when God steps in and does something that seems contrary to the rules He created (such as Noah's Flood), but most of the time, those natural laws stay in effect ... natural laws created by Him, so they're His laws. You were both saying the same thing. 1. How is this contrary to what I said? 2. What makes The Flood contrary to God? 3. At times, it seemed like we were saying the same thing, but she still wasn't pleased with my view. She likes to believe that God decides what the weather is going to be, where I believe God set up a system that decides the whether though he knows the outcome. *shrug* Honestly, I don't think it matters that much.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:08 pm
Quote: 9/11 and the Old Testament ... well, if you want to get technical, Noah's Flood was a result of man's sin. It's different. Sin may have been God's motive, but it wasn't sinful for God to carry out His wrath in the manner that He did. It WAS sinful for those terrorists to hijack planes, go stab-crazy, and then pummel into the world trade center, causing over 2000 innocent civillians to die. I will never believe that God CAUSED 9/11 to happen as an act of judgement. He allowed it, I suppose - but He allows everything. Tragedy and death are just a part of this imperfect world. I remember in Genesis, when Adam and Eve had to leave the garden, that's when they had to start working for their food. Also, childbirth became very painful. I think the pain in this world is a consequence of sin. Quote: No matter what happens, He can find a way to bring something good out of it. He's the ultimate optimist, and He can pull good out of bad. Of course. That's the nature of God.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:20 pm
Quote: Natural disasters ... well, simple compexity theory tells us there's no way of knowing how much of, oh, Hurricane Katrina was our fault for abusing the environment, and how much was just "hey, stuff happens". Point is, it's possible that a lot of "natural disasters" are a result of man's sin ... or, they might not be. Doesn't matter; we still gotta deal with them. Getting all wrapped up in the "why" is just avoidance. Personally, I figure "natural disasters" are just part of the shape of the universe; they happen. Doesn't matter why they happen, only that they happen. Hypothetically, let's say, just for argument, that you and I live next-door to each other. Then a tornado comes along. You and she can question why it happened; I've accepted that it happened, and I'm going to go patch my roof. At the end of the day, I'll be the one with a patched roof; you two can sit and argue in your now-leaky house. I think science and the fact that this world consists of pain and death is purely responsible for natural disasters. If it were an act of judgement, God would have provided His people with fair warning. Also, "why" does kind of matter. If you think God is responsible for all the pain in this world, it very well might tempt you to abandon God. In fact, that's where the enemy used to get me all the time. But thankfully, I've learned to trust that God is good and just.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:32 pm
Quote: That's predestination, carried to extremes. And if that's the case, then I -- with no disrespect to your roommate -- can't see how she can be a Christian. No, I'm not saying she's not, but she certainly never chose to be, did she? Does God have everything planned out? Yes, absolutely. Does He influence things on Earth? Definitely. Does He force us to do what He wants? No, or at least not often, but He does lead us into situations where following His plan is the best move. If God forced us to do what He wanted, then literally everything we did would be what He wanted. It'd be impossible to sin ... or, worse, God would be the source of our sin. Wait, how's that even hypothetically possible? If God's plan is for this person to sin, and God forces them to do so ... that's God wanting them to sin, and making sure it happens. But, since sin is rebelling against God, then we'd be rebelling ... by obeying? Hang on, I need a Tylenol. @_@ That's exactly the point I was trying to get across, and she seemed to agree with it. The problem is, she doesn't understand how God can know the outcome of your actions if they weren't a result of His plan for you. I guess it defies her logic. Not that she uses logic as a point to argue; but the lapse of logical sequence just confuses her and makes it hard for her to see my point. Also, I think she wants to believe that God has her whole life planned out. It's a security issue. Which, I told her that HE DOES. All she has to do is receive His plan for her by carrying out His will. But she doesn't understand why you have to be a Christian for God to have a plan for you. Also, she has a brother who was murdered a long time ago, and she wants to believe God called him to heaven for a reason. She wants to believe everything happens for a reason. As for me, I think things just happen, but if you love the Lord, he will create good from it. I don't know what exactly is wrong with her view, or if anything is, but I think differently. And in my opionion, our differences are okay. But she gets frustrated when she talks to me about it. And then I get frustrated with her being frustrated.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:35 pm
I think that something 'Bait is saying is that if we mistreat the environment and as a result we get an earthquake or storm, our sin caused it directly, not necessarily that it's a random act of God.
In the end, God created the natural world. If a storm happens, He knew it would happen before the earth even existed. He has the power to change it and it is His direct creation so technically you could link it back to Him. That doesn't mean it isn't science, it's just, I don't see a distinction between science-made and God-made (cult of science excluded). Even when you're talking about some chemical combination man discovered, man didn't create it. God created all the pieces and the laws that make it work.
I wouldn't say natural disasters are necessarily wrathful, though.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:37 pm
lymelady I think that something 'Bait is saying is that if we mistreat the environment and as a result we get an earthquake or storm, our sin caused it directly, not necessarily that it's a random act of God. In the end, God created the natural world. If a storm happens, He knew it would happen before the earth even existed. He has the power to change it and it is His direct creation so technically you could link it back to Him. That doesn't mean it isn't science, it's just, I don't see a distinction between science-made and God-made (cult of science excluded). Even when you're talking about some chemical combination man discovered, man didn't create it. God created all the pieces and the laws that make it work. I wouldn't say natural disasters are necessarily wrathful, though. I'm trying to understand how this view is different from what I already think. God knowing + God allowing != God CAUSING And I think karma is an idea that compels me, but I don't believe it exists.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:39 pm
Quote: Now for the part you're going to hate. Can your roommate let this all go long enough for you two to host your get-togethers? I mean, it's a good topic for discussions, but it doesn't sound like either of you is going to get anything out of it. You admit you won't change, and it doesn't sound like she'll change either. That's no discussion, that's fighting. And you don't want to be fighting during your get-togethers. Further, if this is causing that much stress ... tell her this is an unwelcome subject. Neither of you is going to change, and all the subject is going to do is make matters worse. If she doesn't listen, either pack your bags or ask her to pack hers. Yeah, you're right. I guess if she brings it up again, I'll just smile and ask her if we can change the subject. I prayed a long time for her last night that she would find peace with our differences and that I wouldn't upset her any longer. I don't want this to get in the way of our discussion group, either. ><
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 3:00 pm
Takahashi_Natsumi lymelady I think that something 'Bait is saying is that if we mistreat the environment and as a result we get an earthquake or storm, our sin caused it directly, not necessarily that it's a random act of God. In the end, God created the natural world. If a storm happens, He knew it would happen before the earth even existed. He has the power to change it and it is His direct creation so technically you could link it back to Him. That doesn't mean it isn't science, it's just, I don't see a distinction between science-made and God-made (cult of science excluded). Even when you're talking about some chemical combination man discovered, man didn't create it. God created all the pieces and the laws that make it work. I wouldn't say natural disasters are necessarily wrathful, though. I'm trying to understand how this view is different from what I already think. God knowing + God allowing != God CAUSING And I think karma is an idea that compels me, but I don't believe it exists. I don't think it is different than what you said; I was just confused when you said purely science. The idea of science and God being disconnected is difficult to grasp for me. I didn't mention karma, though. I mean, if you are (not scientific at all but!) drilling into the earth so much that it messes with the fault lines and there's an earthquake, it is directly traced back to your actions. If you pollute the earth enough, there will be major natural disasters.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 3:30 pm
I agree, but that's just simple cause and effect.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 4:17 pm
Oh I agree, but if you think about sins, a lot of them are bad for you in an earthly application because of cause and effect as well as a spiritual application because they're sins and all.
Think about it. If you sleep around, you're probably going to get an STD, and you always risk the chance of getting pregnant when you aren't ready for a baby, with no one to help you raise that baby. If you lie, no one's going to trust you and you'll never get help when you need it. If you hurt/kill other people, you're going to incite vengeance from them or their families. If you don't take care of your parents in their old age, there's a good chance your children won't take care of you. Etc, etc. All of these negative consequences can be traced back to the sins we commit. So, I guess it's kind of like karma, only without the mysticism.
Add to that the peril you place your soul in.
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:58 am
I had a couple of thoughts last night (which is about the most I can have at any one time) on the subjects of predestination and cause-and-effect that I wanted to share. *Shrug.* As most people know, my wife and I take martial arts. Now, if I have to spar her ... I'm going to protect my head. Because Meadow always kicks to the head. She never kicks low, she never kicks medium ... always to the head. I know, before we even face off, she's going to try to kick me in the head ... so I protect my head. I know what she's going to do, and I plan accordingly. Certainly, I don't force her to follow my plan. I could stop her from trying, I could even say, "darlin', my stomach's a lot bigger target than my head", but I don't ever force her to hit where I want to get hit. I just plan on her doing her thing ... and the instant I see her kicking foot start to move, I'm sweeping her other leg and putting her on her tuchus. Maybe eventually she'll learn not to do that. Along the same lines, God knows what we're going to do. He may discourage it, He may encourage something else, but He knows what we're going to do. He doesn't force us to follow His plan; He doesn't have to. He already knows what we're going to choose, and makes His plans accordingly. If we do something foolish, His plans may include punishment, either to teach us or to serve justice. He knows it, and He allows it, and He plans for it ... but that does not mean He caused it. It just means He's all-knowing. Quote: LymeLady ... if you are (not scientific at all but!) drilling into the earth so much that it messes with the fault lines and there's an earthquake, it is directly traced back to your actions. If you pollute the earth enough, there will be major natural disasters. Natsumi I agree, but that's just simple cause and effect. Has anybody noticed that thorns and thistles and angry wild animals weren't mentioned in the Bible until after the Fall? There were animals in the Garden of Eden, but Adam and Eve weren't scared. There were definitely plants in the Garden, but no "poisonous plants" or whatnot. I think we could make a good argument for those things being a direct result of man's sin, don't you? Cause and effect. We could even make an argument for this being a Biblically-recorded instance of evolution, brought about by humanity's actions ... but that's just a wild theory, I admit.
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 10:45 am
I believe that pain and fear, like you mentioned, are byproducts of death which Eve allowed into the world by eating the fruit.
If you're implying that everytime you sin, physical manifestations of death (natural disasters, poisonous plants, etc) enter into the world by effect, then that just sounds like karma to me.
If you meant that all those things, or their destructive aspects, came into being upon sin (and also death) entering the world, then I agree.
I just don't think God says to himself "Hmm.. today's Monday in Texas. I think I'll make it rain".
My roommate thinks that everything matters to God, where I believe that God isn't so much concerned with trivial matters like rain or what clothes you wear or what foods you eat, so long as they aren't sinful.
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