So far away
Ok so first background info: My friend was dating this one guy and I ended up finding out that he raped her. After she told me about it they broke up. I told her to stop talking to him but she still would behind my back. I found out not too long ago that she wants to get back together with him but I told her not to because of the fact that he had raped her. She said that it didn't matter and that she wanted to pretend that he never did that to her. Last Wednesday we were talking about what we were going to do over the weekend and she said that she was either stay home and game on Friday and go to RPA with me on Saturday or goto her ex's party on Sunday but if she was going to go to his party he would have to spend the weekend at her house. I told her not to spend the weekend with the guy because I still didnt trust him even though he said he had changed. I had a feeling all weekend that she wasn't telling me something and today before I was able to bring it up to her, her ex started txting me like don't say anything to her just txt her and saying how I didn't care about her happiness because I wasn't letting her be with him. That the only reason they weren't dating yet was because I didn't like them and she didn't want to lose me. He was being a jerk so I had to leave her house. I told her I had to go get my charger from my mom(which I did). After I finally told her ex to f*** off because he was being an a** and I was crying the whole time I was drving he txted my friend and she txted me asking if I had a problem with her. I asked who said I had a problem and she said that her ex told her that I did. I told her that I didn't have a problem but there was something I wanted to talk to her about face to face. She said txting was just as good and I told her I would rather talk face to face so I would know you weren't hiding anything from me. She had asked what she had been hiding and I told her how she was hiding anything that was related to her ex from me and I finally got her to admit where she had been over the weekend. I was right that she had been with him. I wanted to know how long she was at his house but when she avoided the question I broke off our friendship but I had had enough arguing and I knew she was only going to keep hiding from me.
My question for you guys is: Was I really doing my friend harm in trying to keep her from this guy like he had told me or was I doing the right thing?
Been so far away for far too long
Ok so first background info: My friend was dating this one guy and I ended up finding out that he raped her. After she told me about it they broke up. I told her to stop talking to him but she still would behind my back. I found out not too long ago that she wants to get back together with him but I told her not to because of the fact that he had raped her. She said that it didn't matter and that she wanted to pretend that he never did that to her. Last Wednesday we were talking about what we were going to do over the weekend and she said that she was either stay home and game on Friday and go to RPA with me on Saturday or goto her ex's party on Sunday but if she was going to go to his party he would have to spend the weekend at her house. I told her not to spend the weekend with the guy because I still didnt trust him even though he said he had changed. I had a feeling all weekend that she wasn't telling me something and today before I was able to bring it up to her, her ex started txting me like don't say anything to her just txt her and saying how I didn't care about her happiness because I wasn't letting her be with him. That the only reason they weren't dating yet was because I didn't like them and she didn't want to lose me. He was being a jerk so I had to leave her house. I told her I had to go get my charger from my mom(which I did). After I finally told her ex to f*** off because he was being an a** and I was crying the whole time I was drving he txted my friend and she txted me asking if I had a problem with her. I asked who said I had a problem and she said that her ex told her that I did. I told her that I didn't have a problem but there was something I wanted to talk to her about face to face. She said txting was just as good and I told her I would rather talk face to face so I would know you weren't hiding anything from me. She had asked what she had been hiding and I told her how she was hiding anything that was related to her ex from me and I finally got her to admit where she had been over the weekend. I was right that she had been with him. I wanted to know how long she was at his house but when she avoided the question I broke off our friendship but I had had enough arguing and I knew she was only going to keep hiding from me.
My question for you guys is: Was I really doing my friend harm in trying to keep her from this guy like he had told me or was I doing the right thing?
Been so far away for far too long
